Sibling Rivalry

HOW MEXICO AND THE U.S. BUILT THE MOST CONTENTIOUS, CO-DEPENDENT FEUD IN WORLD SOCCER

SIBLING RIVALRY


HOW MEXICO AND THE U.S. BUILT THE MOST CONTENTIOUS, CO-DEPENDENT FEUD IN WORLD SOCCER

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THE UNITED STATES and MEXICO are bound together by history, culture and geography. Whether they want to be or not. This complex relationship is nowhere more visible than on the soccer field, and in the stands. With his new book, Sibling Rivalry, Hal Phillips shows why USA vs. Mexico soccer is more than a match. It’s an ongoing family drama proving that rivalry is a uniquely compelling form of intimacy.  Phillips investigates the fluid, centuries-old associations between the two nations, on field and off. He explores byzantine border dynamics, shared economic anxieties, and the North American Derby’s stunning evolution from a one-sided “nothing-burger” to an intensely contested, ever-escalating blood feud. The partisans are front and center here, but Phillips also draws on the personal narratives of transnational players and fans, breathing more life and nuance into this thoroughly North American story…

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“Hal Phillips examines how the rivalry grew from the heartland of Ohio to Mexico City’s Estadio Azteca, and what the rivalry means on both sides of the border: the shame of Mexicans, the insecurities on both sides, the envy and scorn the two opponents feel about each other in one of international soccer’s most unique and surely complicated rivalries. Really interesting book. Phillips gives also us an important history lesson, not just on the USA-Mexico soccer rivalry and the evolution of the sport in both countries, but on the interdependence between neighboring nations.”

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a masterpiece in the cultural sociology of rivalries in sports and beyond.’

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